Divorce and the Holidays

 Couples who have been considering divorce or simply having problems usually end up filing formal divorce papers by the end of the holiday season. Spending time together during holiday celebrations and looking forward to the new year sometimes advances divorce motions for either party.

 There are many reasons why married couples will file for divorce after December. During the holidays, husbands and wives are spending more time together. Whether their holiday get-togethers are good or bad, this time can increase stress and provoke fighting. Holiday stress can stem from a spectrum of things including financial arguments to disappointing expectations. The holidays are meant to be enjoyed with the ones you love, and this is often a time when couples realize they should no longer stay together.

 Another reason divorce is more common after the holidays is that both parties have more time off from work and daily activities to reflect on their life and the people in it. During the rest of the year, most people are too busy simply keeping up with their schedule to look around and evaluate their own happiness. This can be a good time for someone who needs a fresh start to file for divorce.

Couples may agree to stay together for their children for one more holiday or to try a little longer to work things out. It is also popular for both parties to wait to file for divorce until after tax season.

 No matter when you decide to file, Rauseolaw is always here to help. If you need assistance with filing for divorce or obtaining more information on the best way to do so, please contact one of our Middlesex attorneys for a free consultation.